Change

Adaptation

There’s a lot to read about adapting, redesigning, modifying and adjusting at the moment. This is the age of COVID-19!

Governments, schools, churches, businesses, artists, support and aid agencies, individuals and families, and of course health facilities and workers – physical, psychological, emotional.

One article I’ve just read was how Paralympians and their families are using their imaginations to keep training consistent for best results at the next games.

I found myself thinking that they’d be ahead of the ‘game’ though, as they’ve been adjusting and adapting for some time already. As have all of us who are not mainstream, or of groups/peoples who are least valued by the mainstream.

My adult children have lived their lives being blind, but because that is true of them since birth, it has not been a loss or adjustment for them – only everybody around them who is sighted.

Their life and mine, though, has been one of adjusting, modifying, redesigning and adapting to the mainstream, the larger group who resist any life other than the way it suits them. Now this preference for ‘life done my way’ is not unique to a few or a particular group, it is common to all including me (and my children). But a small few, either choose or are thrust into a new version of life where making accommodations is required.

The difference in this ‘age of COVID-19’, is that those who get by with minimal adaptation and modification are now the few.

And those who are already living lives of modifying, adjusting, adapting and redesigning have more of the like added to their load-bearing.

Some of the technology and systems main streamers are now using, the adjusters and modifiers have been using a long time. So, we’re waiting for you to learn to use it in the way we need to.

Some of us living a life of redesign and modification are further isolated by the technology and systems which the new mainstream finds connective.

Families who have already modified and redesigned their life/work/health balance to fit the mainstream’s order, are having to do this again – with parents, partners, children and grandchildren. Families who had different, demanding, changeable, unpredictable days before the ‘age of COVID-19’, will still live this once it passes and continue to live this on top of the current global changes.

My hope is that this generation will remember to consider who will be excluded, forgotten, disadvantaged or isolated by our choices and preferences moving forward and out of this crisis.

That we will not forget, that some of our crises within the overarching crisis of the virus, were born out of our unwittingness or unwillingness to consider those who are not ‘us’.

That we will learn and practice empathy, and the common thread which is our humanness.

That we will talk with each other, and future generations, about who and what we were before and during the ‘age of COVID-19′; who and what we are working toward being past the age of…’.

Bittersweet

As certain as a concrete path

That leads from here to there

A settled end of certainty

Releasing – if you dare

 

An ending seems so final

Though an end there needs to be

An end with questions still unanswered

End of long-past misery

 

As tender washes bitterness

Aside! Away! Afar!

The bitterness of losses

Taints the sweetness of the mark

 

A farewell mark in time

A fresh begin-again

A next step of progression

A sweet beginning, bitter end

31/5/209

The Tunnel – A Parent’s Latter Journey

The Tunnel

 

Entering a tunnel

Darkness closes in

And roads, once open for to travel,

Are behind, now growing dim

 

Tunnels within the tunnel

Are hidden, not in view

Another holds a lantern

Describes the roads I now can choose

 

Confusion reigns in darkness

Who is safe to trust

Suspicion fills the spaces, which

No longer are robust

 

A strange and lonely journey

Travelled without choice

The One who’s been my leader

I can yet hear His voice

 

Trusted Him in struggle

Trusted Him in peace

As promised He’s been present

Promise stands;

He’s present, He will lead

 

30/3/2018

Tidal

Rise and fall

Light and dark

Ebb and flow subsiding

Ripple, rumble

Dip and swell

Constant wax and waning

 

Ever moving

In and Out

Contained within a border

Unnatural force

Imposed upon

Disrupting created order

 

Tempests pass

Reducing swell

Repelling inundation

Return to scene

At one-time viewed

Revising demarcation

 

19/11/2014

The World Just Changed

A changing world,

of yours or mine,

to me it’s all the same

 

Renewed, restored or altered,

dismantled or reset

Normality will never be

as before, by change beset

 

By some memories

I am tainted

By some

I’m coloured in

The outline of my changing path

Contains it all, within

28/10/2014